Astrology and Personal Boundaries: Mastering Relational Dynamics
Let us be honest here. First dates are nerve-wracking and even more when it is you who asked the person out. You may have a vague idea of what the ideal date should be but you have no idea if your date will actually enjoy it or no. And sometimes, you may feel like you have the ideal date planned and everything is going to be perfect, but then things just end up going from good to bad, bad to worse, and the date is a complete disaster. It is always good to know beforehand itself, if your date is allergic to certain foods or anything else (you do not want your date to accidentally die from anaphylaxis, do you?), and to warn your date to dress comfortably or fancy depending on the date. So, do not worry, we have got your back.
Aries is ruled by the planet Mars and are aggressive and dominant people. They like the chase and the challenge of a task. They are quite energetic and are literally vibrating with energy. A date that is sporty and physically taxing will be the perfect date for an Aries.
Taureans are ruled by the planet Venus and are stubborn and love aesthetics. They are the closest romantics which really cannot be helped considering the fact that they are ruled by Venus, and they derive pleasure from materialistic things and earthly pleasures. They love beautiful things so dinner at the latest upscale and cool restaurant should seal the deal for you!
Geminis are ruled by the planet Mercury and are passionate and curious people. They love communication and getting to know new people much better and for them the right ambiance and the right part is the perfect fit. Their idea of a perfect date is a picnic in a park where both of you can sit and eat while talking about topics that appeal to both of you.
Cancerians are ruled by the Moon and are people who are huge softies with a hard exterior. Their idea of a perfect date is something that would make them feel and would actually mean a lot to them, as in there was thought out behind planning this date. So, if they like a poetry night or even a romantic quiet date, that works as well.
Leos are ruled by the Sun and are charming and outgoing people. They are charming and tend to take your breath away with their radiance and presence itself. They know that well and revel in the power of it. Their idea of a perfect date is well, something that puts them under the spotlight and the attention is all on them.
Virgos are ruled by the planet Mercury and are a calculative of people by nature. They love being busy and productive and hate wasting time. They are people who are practical and prefer to hone their brain, so a cooking class or even a visit to the library or hell, even a pottery class is perfect for them.
Libras are ruled by the planet Venus and are people who love being in love. The small thoughts, actions, affections, everything associated with love make them happy. They love grand gestures and everything that involves romance. A jazzy restaurant, wine, and dining is the best way to make a Libras date perfect.
Scorpios are ruled by the planet Mars and are people who are quite intense by nature. They are intense but at the same time, they are quite sensual. They are energetic people who need to utilize their energy in a positive manner rather than use it negatively. Their idea of a perfect date is maybe a salsa or tango class to spend all the energy they have.
Sagittarius is ruled by the planet Jupiter and is people who are independent and love being free. They are people who always tend to move on and not settle down on a bad experience because they will as though it weighs them down. They live in the moment, so a date in a fair, carnivals, or even amusement parks seals the deal for them.
Capricorns are ruled by the planet Saturn and are responsible and practical people. They do not like spending a lot of money on a date where it could go wrong or the date may not be the one (they are quite the realist) and so their idea of a perfect date would dinner at a diner or a few drinks during the happy hour.
Aquarians are ruled by the planets Saturn and Uranus, and are people who find solace in their own company. They are at peace when they are at home and not surrounded by tons of people. Their idea of a perfect date would be with someone they vibe or gel with really well, and maybe cooking a meal together, or just sharing a home-cooked meal and talking or just being there together without the silences being too stifling.
Pisces is ruled by the planet Neptune and people who are too empathic and intuitive by their nature. They feel a lot and are the free, wild spirits. They also love being amidst nature and surrounded by it as it inspires them. They are insanely artistic and extremely creative. Their idea of a perfect date would involve them getting all artistic and creatively recharged or rejuvenated, so maybe nature or a hike, while a trip to the museum or an art exhibition could do the trick as well.