A good conversation can be a key to the
heart. We all have that special someone who we want to impress badly. You might
have a crush on someone and while talking to them, you can’t utter a single
word. The words turn into butterflies and you keep standing there, poker-faced.
It’s alright if that has happened with you before, it happens to the best of
us. A talk that the special someone feels worthwhile and remembers may leave a
good impression on them.
Breaking the ice in a group of unknown people could be intimidating to some people. They don’t find it in their niche to just go and start talking. It’s great and really helpful if you could talk to strangers easily, but we have tips on how to run it more smoothly.
Astrology has the solution to every problem and the uncomfortable silences can be handled pretty well if you follow the tips of being a better conversationalist, curated especially for your zodiac.
Tips for Aries
If you are an Aires it’s in the alignment of your stars to be first in everything, even in conversations. You might not let someone complete their talk and cut them off mid-sentence. At times people may complain that you don’t let them finish their thought. Try listening to what other people have to say, all good speakers are better listeners.
Tips for Taurus
You hate small talk with a burning passion. You can’t stand talking about the things that don’t mean anything to you. Remember it could mean the world to the one conversing with you, so try being a bit empathetic while they talk. You may come across as rude even when you don’t mean to. Smiles and waves always help. If you feel utterly disinterested, step away politely instead of pushing it on them.
Tips for Gemini
Gemini is notorious for being bad listeners. You love your voice a lot. All the opinions you have are voiced by you. It’s not bad per se, but this affects the one trying to engage in a conversation as at times it may seem like a monologue. A great tip at being a good conversationalist is seeing if the other person is genuinely interested in what you have to speak.
Tips for Cancer
Cancer can be a sweet talker when needed but they are glib. It is hard for them to praise someone and mean it. It would be easy for you to sweet talk through the world if everyone was naïve, but that is not the case. It’s easy when you stop thinking about people and care for people.
Tips for Leo
Leo finds it hard to compliment someone. It’s common for some people, belonging to this zodiac to not care about the place they are in or people they are with before they start talking. They can be seen talking loudly on the phone call at a funeral. If you are a Leo. It could mean you have some deep-seated insecurity, which comes out with your self-deprecating jokes. Not everyone is into this humour.
Tips for Virgo
It’s alright to be wrong at times. You may have a habit of correcting people. On one hand, it may help on the general knowledge side, a bit on the other hand it could shatter the confidence of the person you just corrected. Try finding the silver lining of each talk that you have, listen closely to what the world has to offer.
Tips for Libra
You are great at talking and likes sharing stories. You are fun to have at parties and hold good conversations. On the flip side, it could be common in your talks that you start revolving all your talk to the same point again and again. People could feel at times that you are over-explaining stuff. A wise man said, “Sometimes less is more”. Perhaps try practicing it.
Tips for Scorpio
Differences in opinions can happen if people converse with you. God has given everyone free will. At times people feel that you are having a debate with them when you are just trying to keep your point. Try watching your tone and cadence while talking. Your words are great, give them life with the right pitch.
Tips for Sagittarius
You have the best intentions at heart, it’s time to start showing it off. Stop being afraid of feelings. They reside in your heart and inside you. Say what you have in your mind. Stop calculating the positive and negative effects of the words before you say them. As the prince asked the princess in the fable- “Is it better to speak or to die?”
Tips for Capricorn
You always find yourself busy, doing one thing after another, day and night. It may be hard for you to remember when it was the last time, you had a heartfelt conversation with someone. Take some time for yourself. Stop bottling up your feelings, before you know it the feelings will pop out. Take some moments out for yourself and share what you have to with the world.
Tips for Aquarius
It’s great to be independent, but remember no man is an island. You always try to converse about what others love, keeping yourself in the background. It’s time for you to speak all you want. Take that baton in your hand. Stand for yourself in the crowd of people talking over each other. Talk if they do and match their volume if they scream.
Tips for Pisces
It’s common for Pisces to lose their train of thought. It may confuse people when they have a deep conversation with you. Focus on a point and don’t let your mind wander off to places. While talking to someone try to listen, rather than thinking about what to say next. A good listener can be a good speaker. Stop caring about what people think while you are in the middle of your thoughts.
We hope that these tips could help you. It would be no time before you charm the person of your dreams. Nail that interview you once dreaded. Be the alpha of your pack just by the power of words. The world is yours and it’s your time to shine with your talks.