Taming the Temper Tantrums of an Aries
People born between March 20 to April 21,
come under the sun sign of Aries. Aries people are wonderful beings. They are
bold, ambitious, passionate, motivated, and possess great leadership skills.
They always love to be at the top in every field and it is not a surprise that
they are the first zodiac signs! An Aries is a friend for life and there is a
lot of goodness stored in them. Despite their crude and sturdy outer shell,
they are adorable emotional beings inside. They value their feelings and are
affected by ups and downs. However, the area in which they lack in expressing
their feelings. Aries may feel everything beneath their skin but fail to put
them into words. Thus, they resort to anger. The dark side of an Aries is the
deep-seated anger they grow inside their hearts. When an Aries is angry all
they do is take out everything they have been feeling for so long, without any
prior thought. However, as soon as everything is blurted out and the tantrums
are kept at bay, an Aries calms down quickly and is equally forgiving.
Aries’ Anger in a Nutshell:
If something goes in a way that Aries’ don’t approve of, they can easily get angered. Aries are extremely picky when it comes to making choices and it is very easy to get them fuming with the wrong choice of food or places to visit. An Aries is a punctual being. They are always on the go and do not like to stop for anything. They want to utilize every second which has been given to them and rest only when the night owl calls. Thus, any person who is slow, never on time, and is indecisive can get on an Aries’ nerves.
Being a fire sign, do not expect Aries to be too merciful when you commit a deep sin. They live for vengeance and get it done instantly. Be careful before dealing with an Aries as with their high levels of intellect, it is almost impossible to predict their next move.
As easy as it is to get an Aries angry, it is also easy to make it up to them. All you need to do is to listen to what they have to say, be understanding, and let them know that they are heard and respected. Bring up your side only when they are done explaining their thoughts as expressing feelings do not come easily for them. It is easy to tame an Aries when in anger, all you need to do is know-how!
Dealing with an Aries’ Anger:
The first step towards dealing with an Aries’ anger is to not make them angry in the first place. An Aries does not think through when they are fumed and thus can blurt out nasty comments which most signs find offensive. Thus, it is best to be in control when dealing with an Aries. Do not test an Aries’ patience and try to let them get their way when it is important. If they achieve something and keep talking about it, let them till their pride goes back in. Always be punctual around an Aries and straightforwardly express your views. Oh, how an Aries hates to be lied to. Be honest with them, talk to them calmly, be straight up, and whatever it is be respectful of their feelings and emotions.
However, if the Aries is already charged up and has begun throwing their temper tantrums, stand there and listen. Do not attempt to fight back as it just adds fuel to fire. If you have made mistakes, apologize sincerely and when you do, it must come from the heart. They are not going to be the first to approach you in these scenarios thus you must make the first move and initiate conversation. Also, respect their privacy and give them some space when they are dealing with their emotions. An Aries prefers to be left alone at such times because they are capable enough of dealing with themselves. An Aries is a strong being, generally very sensitive and the best part about them is that they realize when they are at fault. Despite their dark side, Aries calms down quickly and does not carry the hurt in their hearts for too long. If you are sincere with them and admit your faults, they will instantly forgive you and embrace you back into their charm.