Love can make you blind, mostly with fear because you are too scared about the future and hence personal tarot readings should be carefully conducted. If you usually do the tarot readings and if you don’t like the result, you may tend to shuffle the deck excessively or even be fearful for what is about to be revealed by the cards. You may pull the cards over and over again until you get the satisfying answer. In such a case, you may be confused with all the mixed messages without any clarity.
With time, you may learn that treating tarot and spirit guides is of utmost importance because they are having a conversation with you and they will guide you throughout your journey. You don’t push the help away instead you hold its hand and get out of the problem. Obstacles may come or you may dislike what you see, lower your expectations and go with the flow.
Here are few steps which you can take in order to improve your personal reading:
Time and Your Choice –
Which kind of reading is better suited for you should be decided by you. It can be individual reading and a couple reading. Usually, basic readings are drawing three cards where the third card is a closing card. There are two types of readings mentioned above and both require a different approach. In the first instance, you can determine your path in life with each card representing your past, present, and future. It will determine which path you should follow. In the Second instance with a couple readings, you can determine what keeps you together and what pulls you away. The first and third cards represent you and your partner respectively, while the second one represents both of you coming together. Time is the essential aspect of the tarot as your readings will solely depend on what kind of decision you wish to take. You can choose the question based on time, may it be past, present or future.
Removal of Excess Energy –
It is very important to remove all the excess energy before you proceed with the reading because it can eventually affect the outcome. Anxiety and fear are natural when it comes to self-determination of your fate but can they break your path? No. Your energy can very much affect everything around you, it becomes necessary that you ground yourself before any tarot card reading. When you don’t ground yourself, everything may become a little messy with your worst fears showing on deck. If you are in a bad state of mind, it’s best to avoid reading cards. Cleansing your aura will help you to clear your energy and eventually your state of mind. Exercise, movement of body, etc are the best ways to cleanse your aura. Once, your energy is clean it’s necessary to cleanse the space around you and the deck that you own. Your intuition is the best guide to take you through the session. It will always tell you when to start and stop.
Too many cards spoil the outcome –
Excessive pulling of cards can keep you confused with all the mixed messages that you may get. Messages might be codes and multiple readings can keep you busy decoding everything. You may pull more cards simply because you may not like the ones that have opened up for you but you should get the message clearly in one go. It is vital to not have a second reading for your relationship problem. Once clarity comes to you, decoding answers will become easy. You can decode the messages by noting them down and gradually coming back to the notes over a period of time.
Detachment in the Growth Cycle –
You should be detached in your growth cycle. If your reading indicates an area of your life which needs healing, you should heal it. There will be obstacles shown in your reading and you may not like it at all. However, it is essential to go beyond them and cross them with ease. The universe is always behind you to teach you important life lessons which can be bitter. They will make you see things from a different perspective, by creating some distance between you and your past and boost you to grow. You should learn to be detached and go with the flow.