Love and feelings are chronic but what stays forever is the essence of innocent friendship. A friend who genuinely loves or cares for you like a family would always stand for you in every rock and bottoms of your life and still won’t step back from those terrible periods. They are those strengths that help us to balance our life with ease and comfort, no matter how much cruelty the outer world, spits out.
It never sees a profit for maintaining a bond but such bonds happen all of a sudden and stays for a lifetime.
There are certain ways to keep the bond of the friendship alive and fresh forever even in between the midst of the chaos.
LEARN TO BE A TRUE FRIEND
Any relationship is a two-way process. What you give is what you receive back with interest. Therefore, when your friendship is true, that is reflected through your actions even if you do not speak about it. Having one real friend is equal to a thousand candles that light up your life. A true friend makes sure to guide you through every adversity of life. Therefore, make sure what kind of friend do you want. Keep it all raw and innocent from within.
COMPASSION IS A DOOR TO EMOTIONS
In today’s era of social media, where words have become too vocal to be listened onto. There are various individuals who prefer to criticize and demotivate aspiring artists or arts around them. It can be any form of art or skills but there will always be spectators who would prefer sabotaging the motivation rather than igniting it. Spread words of compassion and love to those aspiring friends who took up the courage to present something of their own creation to the world without fear. Be their support. It is always good to speak well for others and if there is nothing good to be spoken of, it is always the best to keep quiet.
UNDERSTAND THE IMPORTANCE OF LISTENING
Eminent psycho-analyst, Sigmund Freud once mentioned through his theories and counseling that one of the best and organic medicine is when we listen to others. That is where the advent of healing starts. Listening does not mean the random nodding to the words without understanding. But listening implies the way of empathizing and sharing the moment with the other through the interaction of what they have to say or convey to you. it is always the best not to deviate them while their process of speaking to you as you might the only person to whom he/she has even opened up to.
PUT A LAUGH ON THE FACE OF OTHERS
When you make others laugh, it enriches your soul to feel the joy all within yourself even if you feel devoid of happiness. Laughter does not cost a penny but heals the broken heart and damaged souls. When you make a person laugh, he/she gathers up the courage of comfort to be frank and themselves when they are with you. That is what builds the real meaning of Trust.
MEAN WHAT YOU REALLY SAY
Make sure to speak to what is within your reach. Do not try to show off or build castles on the clouds to show a random act of something which is momentary. It is always good, to be honest, and modest as there comes no stress to hide it and it also helps in developing a concrete bond with the other person.
HAVE POSITIVE INTENTIONS FOR THEM
It is quite normal to be stressed with millions of thought that crosses our mind every day. But the important thing is to choose the positive ones amongst them. Fill the life of yours with the positive affirmations. When you do that, it not only lightens your day but also helps in building a positive impact when you reveal your pure intentions to them. It is always a good motive to incur positive thoughts in the mind of someone you love, for their stress-free future.