Have you ever been in love? Yea, we know it is quite a
stupid question as we all fall in love with someone or the other once in a
while. And falling in love and feeling loved sure is a brilliant emotion and it
takes a whole lot of your energy and feelings. So, well coming back to the
question of love, we began this article with a question so as to figure out
that do you have an idea about how much does one spends themselves while they are
in love. And it is quite obvious that if you were ever in love or still are in
love then you would definitely know that love brings along heartbreak.
THE AFTERMATH OF LOVE
We all live a life that tends to have its own shades that of happiness and love as well as that of heartbreak and betrayal. Being in love might seem to be easy, but once you love someone who hearted then you probably might find it next to impossible to move on.
It is a basic understanding that once a relationship becomes toxic then that means that it’s time to bid adieu to that person. It might seem to be impossible, but it sure is not, and for the same, we have a few tips for your millennial out there that might help you move on from that toxicity.
ACKNOWLEDGE YOUR FEELINGS AND CLEAR THE BAGGAGE
Speaking of a toxic relationship, every relationship that is about to come to an end is definitely because of the reasons of incompatibility, fights, and a lot more of such dark issues. So, while one is done with his or her partner they tend to hold baggage of grudges, impulsive thoughts, sadness, regret, revenge, and what not?
So, in order to be able to move on from this toxic partner and toxic past of yours, you need to acknowledge your feelings and clear your baggage. If you feel like crying then let it out, feel like losing your temper to that person then do it, and even if feel the need to just grieve then you do that too. Just don’t bottle your feelings out and just let everything you have out against that person so as to move on to a peaceful note.
STEP OUT OF THE FANTASY WORLD
While a relationship is about to reach an end then we usually tend to think that what went wrong and how could this happen all of a sudden? Well, to clear some air let us give you the reality check that nothing happens out of the blue, the tensions and strains come at an early stage and it is you who needs to address them.
We often live in a fantasy world and imagine fairytale endings for our love lives, but do these fairytales actually exist? Of course not! And that is the reason that most people do not mourn the relationship they had, instead they mourn the relationship they thought they had. So, if you need to move on, then put your feet back to the ground and live life with a realistic approach.
LOVE YOURSELF MORE
One of the most difficult aspects of moving on is where the person loses their sense of self. So, while you are trying to move on from a toxic relationship then you should definitely focus on loving and valuing yourself more than anyone or anything else. It sure will extremely hard to let go of the love of your life, but one needs to be practical and think about their self first.
Accept the fact that you deserve a person who loves you with all his heart and soul as that is what your worth is. So, love yourself more each day and even this hurdle will pass through.
DEAL WITH THE FACT THAT HE/SHE IS NOT THE ONE
We usually fall in love with a person whom we think is the ultimate love of our lives and we are about to spend the rest of our lives with this perfect person. But this is just a myth and a bubble which we need to pop and come out of it, as if the relationship is not working towards happiness and success then you should probably make peace with the fact that maybe he/she is not the right one for you.